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You and I are very lucky to be living in an age where Tinder and Instagram DMs, give us the ability to tell someone that we are attracted to them without actually having to look them in the eye.

BUT, what about those of us who are a little more old fashioned? How can you tell if someone is interested in you through face to face interaction?! Well, have no fear…

As it turns out, eyes really are the windows to the soulโ€ฆ

Pupil Dilation

When we are looking at something or someone we are attracted to, our eyes dilate (Sometimes up to 4 times their original size!). This is a subconscious reflex that occurs so that our eyes can then let more light in and we can therefore see more of that object or person.

Next time youโ€™re in conversation with someone, try and pay attention to what their pupils are doing. The bigger their pupils, the better ๐Ÿ™‚

Interesting huh?

Blink rate

Did you know that when someone is attracted to you, their blink rate can increase significantly? This is because the number of times we blink is linked to emotional excitement.

This one may be a little hard to tell, but if do you notice a spike in the number of times someone blinks while in conversation, this can either mean that they may be interested in you (Yay!), or simply have something in their eye… ๐Ÿ™„ 

Eye contact

Now this may seem like an obvious one, but eye contact is perhaps one of the easiest and most reliable ways to tell if someone is attracted to you.

If someone breaks eye contact with you from across the room, only to re-initiate that eye contact within the next 30 seconds, there is a huge chance that they are interested in you…A 95% chance in fact.

What about the length of time eye contact is held for?

Well, on average, people will hold eye contact for under a second if they have no interest in the subject. Anything around the 2-3 second mark can be a clear sign that they like what they see ๐Ÿ˜‰

So there you have it! 3 simple ways to tell if someone is interested to you using there eyes.

Thank me later ๐Ÿ˜‰

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